De one with Lost in the Desert

Reflective and questioning

Just as I was about to give up, someone pushes me up again. Can't help feeling "helpless" like Bella Swan from Twilight saga. No idea what I'm driving at? Here's a clue! My colleague described my situation under "contemplation". Don't think I was clear enough. Hack la.. I was going to quit.

Indecisive whether God works his wonder or pure coincidence in due course, Reb said she had an intuition an hour or so before she knew I'd been approaching her to break the news. Which I did eventually. And her reply was "we talk again". We revisited the matter again and she asked me to head back to think again. Hence, this blog entry.

Confess and admit plainly, the workload was part of the reason. With relationship out of the way, I had failed to juggle work and studies as much as I thought I could. This was unforgivably bad. Yes, over-expectations drown myself into greater pressure and disappointment. My targets were set above average given it was my last semester in school and I'm bestowed ever more responsibilities. Obviously, I find myself bending over backwards to meet these goals. "Tire-ness" claims the other half. Sounds clinche but nevertheless true. I feel tied down.. lost of control of my schedules and priorities. It sucks cause I feel messed up and drained both mentally and physically.

For some, they would impose their comments: "We get tired from everything else, we just gotta suck up to it and better learn how to manage it. Either through effective time management. Or adopt optimistic attitude." Precisely so, we ought to take a break. To re-boot ourselves, see things with a clearer mind and strategise an enhanced effective course of action. Not forgetting, for rejuvenation to jump the next hurdle that's gonna come. Else, facing the problem with a stubborn and persistent head-on, it's a question of now or later that we're just gonna coop up like a packet of popcorn under prolong heating in an microwave oven, which explodes eventually.

This time, I fell hard and lagged in picking myself up again. Good or bad? Let's just leave the evaluation aside. It doesn't matter anymore. What's the point of deciphering the pros and cons? More importantly, realise it is okay to leave situation as it is. No point crying or landing ourselves into a panicky state over spilled milked. Just let it dry under the sun and have nature takes its course. Would you disagree?