De one with "Why can't You just say an outfront rejection"

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Seriously, is telling a rejection so difficult?
Of course, it will vary amongst different people. Out spoken and straightforward people would find it much easier coz they are born with it. Not forgetting the constrains of sensitivity. Well, let's just remove all these complexity and speak general.

I mean, why...? in conversation oline. If you don't feel like talking to the other more participating person, you can't put it out frank to that person. Instead, u have to give that person the hope or possbility by giving all sorts of pleasant-to-the-ear excuses. Omg.

This is true for dating too.. omg. Don't like then say it out lah. Sigh. Eh, however before you reject, please consider first lah.

Personally, if i don't like a person, i'll tell that person straight. I'll never allow the other party to wait just because i give excuses to leave that party's hopes suspending in mid-air.

Be decisive. Sigh.. not forgetting some compassion.