De one with Wipe and Sparkles

Slash of the shimmering

Indeed a day to be enlightened!
Alas! Na.am (Yes in Arabic)!

Was washing my hand after relieving myself in the middle of the movie that I cast away all my doubts. Doubts pertaining to my decisions. Decisions concerning the things I purchase, words to say, gestures in behavior, choices to commit. Like life, just when I though the 12 diamonds on the Atlas ring had lost its shine, it twinkled as its facets captured the spotlight during hand-washing. That moment as though an angel had breathe life to a withered flower and it was all magic all over again.

Sidetrack for awhile. Went to watch Sex and the City 2. Generally it wasn't a matchset when compared to its first, this I agree. Perhaps there weren't much glamor. Production funds to doll up the ladies in high fashion, cosmetics and labels seemed to have been allocated to their film site at Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates. Highly probable to have cost a dynamite. The movie didn't end with marriage. Instead, it kick-start when gay marriage. What an appetizer to test how much you could appetite the openness of film. Less nudity, less joke but kinda easier to predict where the storyline was going towards.

It's about the same set of problems most women faced. It's all those issues after the look for love, after marriage. About being faithful, committed, sustaining passion, defending what's yours, a little pinch of suppressing your desires. Boy, there was this braless Nanny.. My my.. it's a mouth watering scene for all guys I guessed.

And one more thing I realised, people have seemed to stereotype goodlooking people who ain't married, as homosexuals. *rolls my eye* I wondered why.. What if people just haven't met the right one or they savor freedom of remaining single.

Realisation #3, I enjoy talking to people. And I got feedbacks strangers enjoy talking to me. And who says I'm not gregarious or charismatic enough? *Jason raises his hand*.

Final actualisation, I ain't as uncared for or unloved as I condemned myself to be. My family and certain friends adore me more than anybody in the world. Was blind to the fortunate sparkles around me. I have work experience (typed my CV yesterday), pretty things. More than never, I got most of all that I wanted. Self condemnation -- Wiped and gleam! 

De one with Vital Moment

Hard decisions

Got a demoralising news. Looks like I might not graduate in time with the rest. However, certain opportunities are around the bend. Should I wait till it's time or seize the prospective decisions before me?

*fingers tapping*

De one with The Ugly Duckling Story

Bedtime stories

The beginnings are ever alluring. Just like how I awoke fresh and reluctantly, like a baby duckling coming out of the hatched egg, to get dressed and head to work.

It seemed as though I'm a dart board after all these days I've been away from office. Everything doesn't seemed to go right. When there's anything wrong, I''m to be blamed or ought to take responsibility for. Not trying to be a disgruntled employee but it's never been more obvious. During my entire 14 hours at office, it literally feels like an ugly duckling which is picked on. Not only is he demoralised with his shabby looks, under-developed intelligence, there's muddy swamps everywhere. Yuck yuck yuck yuck.

It wasn't until the ugly duckling left for home. A place where it could wash itself and transformed into a Swan as he relaxes. Only did he realise beneath all the ugliness and unhappiness, there are beautiful things to compensate for the unfortunate events. My ah-ma made me this nostalgic traditional plum-anade. Super dupper delicious and smoothing to the throat. The moment I arrived home, I saw curry puff.. yum yum, my favourite.

If only there was a "Christmas in a cup"..awww~

De one with Life's a Bed of Rose

Relax, recuperate and rejuvenate

Any idea how would you plan your activities for a long term should you have the fortune of affording a temporal mid-life retirement? Don't get me wrong. It's not retirement for perpetual or holiday vacation. The term in discussion refers to a short term, you know, one or two months. Scratching your chin or temple? Lemme give you some time to think about it. In the meantime, here's how I'd love my "mid-life" retirement be scheduled... hehe...

I'd wake up as long as my body clock awakes. Or have a dog, licking my fingers. Aww.. it'd definitely melt my heart to wake up to a sunny, windy morning. At least, no sounds of traffic, depressing crowd to the busstops or panic over being unable to get a cab to be in time at work.

Wake up with freshly brewed tea in fine china or my all time favourite mug, read some newspapers, magazines Well, himbo's dumb enough. It's prudent habit to cultivate the brain from moulding. Just imagine.. not blonde, can't afford to get dumb. 

I'd got for a jog on alternate days. Followed by swimming and suntanning in the afternoon sun. When it's raining, I'll most likely stay home, watch home videos or plug on my ipod and cycle or do weights at home. After swim, I could have late lunch with friends, my god-brother, go ikea to shop for awhile. It's optimum to shop in the afternoon. You do not get a rushed feeling that the day is ending and there ain't much crowd or clatter from all the people who just never stop rumble and ratter over what happened at work or on their journey today.

On days when I do not exercise, I'd most likely draw to my heart's content. Creativity's at its peak during early hours. I could go to the park, lay myself on a carpet-grass patch, listen to the (toilet-trained) birds with the dome of ceiling-less, clear blue skies above. Puurrrfect!

Late afternoons I could go for facial. Or stay home to stone and realise how untidy my room is. Am certain it wouldn't be long before I start packing and revamping the layout of my room. At times, I might just polish my crystal babies, tiffanys and bags. Other time, it'd be adoring to have some private moment, reading a book with Starbucks coffee or napping.

Come evening time is the prime time to walk the dog. Or fly a kite should there be winds. I recall sitting at the stairs at the end of the overhead bridge leading to the park. Clouds of various, manipulative shapes, flushed orange and gold as the settling sun flare its glory. Or perhaps trailing by the river, feeding fishes or throwing pebbles would be nice.

The night is often covered with a blanket of stars as the crickets hold their outdoor concert. Dinner and movie dates would be magical. Especially when you've had a rested daytime. Attributing reasons are simple. You look and feel best despite the curtains closing for the day. Cast away worries for repeat of the vicious cycle of work, school or Ns training. Only sweet dreams awaits and a brand new tomorrow to accomplish whatever you have not done today or the day before.

It's a fairytale to have someone sitting by yourself, in front of a fireplace or heater during the monsoon period. Both of us drinking hot chocolate, strawberries and cuddling warmth under a quilt. Man.. it's unbelievably awesome to have times like this. Not forever but frequent. Let's not be too greedy la, hah..

De one with May in a Blink

Unwant-ed

Seriously, ask yourself what you have done or achieve for this month. Thus far, I am guilty to say my achievement list haven't been long. To make it worse, it was uneventful.

Regretful thoughts of quitting is in the air. My colleague got accepted into one of the big 4. For me? I'm sitting on the fence. What's in front of me seemed vivid and misty. It's tough to move on without assurance that I made the mark to graduate. In the meantime, I fear the tendency to fall backwards, which means school day's are not over and graduation seemed a couple of months away. This uncertainty is displeasing.

Well, as much as my expectations of less-loaded-with-work month, it only stretched as far as the first week and things fell back where they were last month. It's big job. No clear timeline for me to plan my work. Everyone's directing here and there. I detest all these ambiguity and top of all, the inevitable helplessness.

This explains why I've been unhappy. Sent texts in search of comfort and got nasty comments. Gee.. give me a break nasty people. I didn't text so I could be reminded to be apologetic. Shared with I and F, no matter how towering-ly confident, high-esteemed and sunshiny about yourself (who I am, how I behave, equipped), discerning words never fail to get to you.

Since all above failed, this poor boy zipped his mouth and resolved on other agendas:
1st agenda: Catching up with a few friends
2nd agenda: Bought delightful things, Jay Chou album
3rd agenda: Stay home and spend time with family
4th agenda: Embark on constructive activities like running, improving vocabulary and learning to rest


Breathe, keep going and recharge. That's my life philosophy for this month. Some life huh..

De one with a Day with Conjunctivitis

On medical leave

Woke up yesterday with my left eye red. Conjunctivitis. Have no slightest idea how it happened. Ah-ma kept telling me to take the day off work and see the doc. After contemplating for a few minutes, I decided work at client's place is too much to miss and headed off to work with eyes of red and white.

Visited the doctor since the eye didn't heal and the itch is just too bothersome. She gave me eye-drop and medical leave. I kinda enjoyed the day. A day without work. When it got better, I went down town just to collect Jay Chou's tenth album.

"跨時代" came with a souvenir: An album with collar pins of the past nine albums. Under each are the dates on which the albums were released. It comes in cup-board or metal. Thanks to being simple for the week, I choose the cup-board which was obviously a wrong choice. After some thought, it's fine. I had one thing less to find a space for. 

The songs are more or less about the same style. Jay Chou did it his way. I wouldn't proclaim myself to be a big fan but a considerably loyal one given I supported all his album and vied for his concert tickets though unsuccessful. 10th album. Way to go Jay! And thanks, you music accompanied me through the past few years and never did it fail to cheer me up.

De one with Down-sides of Homosapiens

Untrusting

"Whatever happened to please-may I? Or yes, thank you? ..Or how charming?" - Velma Kelly, Chicago (1926).

Recent incidents have drenched me with dismay. It only takes one or two to shred your wonderful day from a hundred favourable things.

The Cab Crook-driver

I got conned! Too late to confront on the spot so I lodged an online complaint the moment I got home.

The incident happened on Sunday night. It was past 10, late and I decided for a fast journey home since there was gonna be work tomorrow. I needed to grab some snack from the kiosk. So I had the cab stopped alongside the road and handled $52 to foot the $11 fare. Only after he changed me $1 did he confess he didn't have change for the $50 note. It didn't take more than 4 seconds he came up with the suggestion to charge the fare using NETS. Fine, I returned the coin together with my debit card, in consent to his suggestion. I placed the $2 note on the center-driver's armrest. I took the note and took over the NETS machine to key in my pin to proceed with payment. After that, I collected my loose items (wallet, Nexus phone, documents and keys) in the poor litten environment (he didn't bother to turn on the cab light). During this moment, there was a subconscious doubtful soul which keep telling me something's amiss. I inquired the driver whether he did return me my $50 note. "Yes" he replied in a "ya ya, I did, just get outta my cab" intonation.

Not very nice to risk the cabby's time, so I alighted promptly. Stepped out of the vehicle with a heavy heart, I forced hard on my memory, trying to recall whatever happened over and over again like fixing a 10 piece puzzle within 1 minute. I rechecked my wallet! Alas! There should be two $50 notes, now there's only one! - Treachery.

Sigh, how come this kinda crook still exist? Cheat the young's money through a intended lie.


Spiky Despise hair +Airy salesman

To salvage the lamentable news for the month: A star chipped off my Swarovski Kris bear. Thanks to my aunt's deed to clean lor. So i carried the ornament of heartache to Orchard only to be informed by a friendly lady that repairs can be done at 4 collections points. She was kind enough to give me a card with the 4 collection branches with addressed imprinted and even suggest the nearest was Raffles City Shopping Centre.

With godspeed, I proceeded to Raffles City. The displeasing incident unfolds.

This chub was at the counter, opened up the blue box with a "man, just wanna get this over and done with" attitude. Definitely far from how the lady unpack when I got the crystal. He inspected the warranty booklet three times, each lasting for at least 2 minutes. Once when he first opened the box. Once before he took the piece out. And again after he put the piece back. It wasn't until the third time when my patience ran out that I clarified if there was something wrong with the warranty. And he said, he had trouble making up the date. Please la, you could have ask, There's only two date and it's hand-written bigger in size than the front size of what you read. His behaviour spoke of his doubt over my integrity. I swear to God, Jesus, Allah, Zeus, Achamán it was.

The way he advise. No, not advising. Sarcastic about separating the detached piece from the main crystal. Sigh. He mentioned "next time". The other Jason thought, "yeah right, there's not gonna be a next time. Definitely not with you".

The second wave of sarcasm came with the my filling of particular. My handwriting. "If your contact number is not clear, how are we going to contact you". Please la, say it in a better manner.

The three rings he worn, a metallic (filled with scratches) and two other  "honestly ring" with plain crystals (not diamonds) and you speak to me in an airy manner. Totally not goodlooking at all. You are still a salesperson behind a counter providing service assistance. What the... 

A piece of white paper will never be perfect with a black marker dot on it. I'm an easy-going customer. Ask James and others the limits of my tolerance threshold. This coming from me.. ain't sound fine.

Rude and cunning people. What is the world coming to.. Jeez!  :(

De one with Quad-Centennial Edition

With dexterity

Inaugural to celebrating 400 blogs of complaints, joyful news, depressing written ordeals and sweet-smelling nostalgic stories, I dedicate this slightly-off 403 entry to my dearest friends, supportive readers and forthcoming stalkers, passing web-browsers or even spot-checkers. Lol.

A few months ago, I conducted a brief survey. This involved friends and acquaintances to text a single word which they felt best in describing me. You could call it "evaluation". I call it "research materials" and reliable sources ain't more appropriate than people whom I've dealt or met before. Then again, just to clarify further, the most important bottom-line is to be receptive and present words from others meant more valuable than casual, self-composed entries.

Without further ado, *clasps both hands together*, let's have our appetizers serve, shall we?

*Opens the dish cover, clouds of mist unfurls out beneath* the glitter word appears as the mist dissipates: "Vain pot". Yes, this was the golden word which bestowed by you-know-who. *palms out* Indeed I can't deny. Look at my toiletries, how I choose my clothes, accessories and you'll know how true that word reflect. Obviously it ain't a positive description. Well, everybody deserves to be vain, to bring out the "better" appearance in us. But of course, without going overboard or superficially pretentious.

"Sweet" appears second on the list. Your votes. Not mine arh. Personally, there's really nothing distinctively sweet about me. Basically, I do things willingly or genuinely for people whom I care about.  Honestly, given my limited capacity, unaccomplished gift of speech, or body size, there's nothing I can do to protect or do miraculous works to patch broken hearts (although I have a NUM Tee which says so.. ok kidding), or even cheer you up like some psychiatric-guru when you're down. "Do things within your means" (Mummy, 1995) and abidingly, I did, without intentions to please.. just want you to be gay (ie happy).

Others perceive this as "accommodating", some stereo-typed me"bending-over-backwards" and trying hard to impress. While I do admit investing my best at times, I'd beg to differ from the dreadful "I" word. Cause is simple. I never do. Those whom I've worked with or seen my work comment in unison of me being "perfectionist". Philosophically, I trust if you never try, how would you know. Even if you did try, give it your best shot. So you wouldn't have any excuse for regret. What do you think, guys with the "I" impression?

"Quiet" and "shy" are next on the feedback list. Hmm.. we've come a long way. Till today, first impressions never fail to pick this affinity between me and being quiet or shy because I have a mouthful of gold or avoid eye contact. Being shy I do admit la.. but improving. As for eye contacts, I'd stick to the same: Unless it's something important, you wouldn't have me looking into your eyes. They say eyes are windows to the soul. I have nothing to hide. Perhaps.. just don't wish having people getting infatuated. Haha. Come on! Know me better and you can be a jury yourself to derive a verdict if "quiet" is representative of my personality. Hah.

"Naive" came from my manager and dear Max. Sometimes, it is tagged along with "stubborn". Naive doesn't mean immature here. Rather it relates to how I view the world. "人 之 初, 性 本 善" - 三字經. I trust and adopts less sophisticated way of viewing people despite knowing how complex human nature can be. Why immerse ourselves into over-skeptical or sophisticate-mindedness when socialising with others. Just be plain, be simple and behave how you'd like others behave with you.

Others say I'm "cute". Yes, go on, put your indexes near your uvulas, roll your eyes like roulette at casinos, or start reciting "definition of "cute" = ugly but adorable" if you decide to. Oh by the way, I don't think any dictionary defines cute as ugly but adorable. Continue using this and I'd most probably be the 2nd after Dr Hughes to discover a mistaken in whichever dictionary from which you derive that error from! It's my face. I can't help it. Haha. Come on, don't be discouraged. I'd say, if I can be, so can you!

Some say Jason's "talented".. because I can draw. "Gullible" (some would feedback) and "talented", both are like two big puzzles which can't seemed to fit ley.

"Impulsive".. that's the uprising category which more people are seeing. Others have associated it with me being "impatient" because when I want it, I get it and get it quick. Who or rather, what to be blamed to have cultivated this "fast and furious" force in me? Two culprits: Music and audit. In music, timing has to be precise. Each and every note has a time of its own so that it fits and pieces to form harmony. Of all, I love accelerating tempo which derives an exhilaration within the heart-racing beats and fluid-running notes. Audit. It's a race with time, stuffing all that you can do within a time-frame. Don't bother giving me what is not require. Get the objectives right and get it done and over with. Like "staccatos" within the rhythm of life.

F defines me with "energetic". Hmm.. am I? As much as I try to be jovial and bursting with life, I think this essence of youth seemed to have landed itself into "endangered status" with my current job situation. We get tired so easily. Oh boy.. time to do something about it.

Saved the best for the last. A friend H, texted me this: "You're like Swarovski crystal - Cold and hard on the appearance yet transparent to see". What does it mean? I shall let this be an open-ending...

Words paint an image just fine. Pleasant ones are like primary and bright colors. Objectionable ones are like shades of dark and grey. I hereby give thanks to all who have contributed to this blog. May it root delights in the hearts from which these fantastic descriptive words grew from hours, days, months or even years of interaction with thee. 

De one with Criminal 402

Don't doubt

Went to Barrossa at the Esplanade on Friday. I am sure I ain't an alcoholic. *index finger's up*

I only had classy champagne, sizzling tequila, playful cocktail and tingling daiquiri.

Criminal 402 was called to court. "I didn't do it. I'm not guilty. Believe me, I'm not guilty", pleaded the young chap, trying so hard to convince until his eyes were red and brimmed with moist.

And the judge said if you didn't, raise your arms for inspections of the pockets of your coat. And the young chap did obligingly.

The jury gasped in harmony. Little did the accused know he was on trial for thief from the roti prata seller instead of murder. Both of his palms glistered with oil.

  

De one with Wealth

Painful

The measure of personal wealth isn't the number of bottles of fine red wine in your cellar, carats of diamond rings, bottles of colognes, figurines from Swarovski, certificates, collectibles, piggy-banks of coins. No, not all these. What are those I define my personal wealth to be then?

To be honest, this is an never-ending, contentious issue. Invadingly-expanding insurance, now re-branding (or "upgraded") to personal financial planners and those good-old, commission-maximising bankers would give the most practical answers: bonds, equity and any financial instruments are the most relevant benchmarks of wealth. As Alex Spanos says "Cash is King".

Hearts-inviting counselors, teeth-gleaming medical-practitioners, retiring sportsmen and even my "ah-ma" would give their pennies worth advice: Wealth is Health. Be it physical, psychiatric or psychological form.

Moving on to subcategories of the above financial and non-financial aspects, attention-captivating advertisements or salespersons with faces tortured by thick layers of powder and concealers would promote and pursue slogans to sell : Status, "worth for money". In other words, come be a slave to Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Alleviate yourself to levels of "Belonging" (man, this is so high-school) and "Esteem"! 

Certain plots of the most-vicious Hongkong drama presents another lucid perspective: Family love is another parcel of wealth. Some, not all though, purport "faith" as a measure of wealth, spiritually.

Tsk tsk tsk.. just defining the measure wealth is a dizzy-headache. Since we are at it, lemme share my point of view. Hehe. Chin Yu introduced me to a book about "Millionnaire next door". I recall I mentioned it before in my previous blog. Anyway, till today, the principles related to wealth are as follows:

To be wealthy, you need to:
1) Save
2) Make sound investment
3) Be nourished and lifelong learning

Moving on, why need to save? Imagine a pipe with both ends open. input colored liquid through one end. Without having to elaborate further, it flows out the other end. Nothing retains. Nothing accumulated.

To save ain't enough. "Lending", not "saving" your money with banks at a pathetic low interest rate. Jeez.. we are loaning our money and guess what? the banks gets to set the interest rates payable! Let's not diverge, shall we? Make sound investment. Don't just accumulate plainly, accumulate cumulatively!

Investment does not only entail becoming a shareholder. To me, setting up your own business is important. . Online banner might flash "Set up your own company with just $1!!" Well, easier said than done, nothing comes without a price tag, subsequent sustaining costs to keep your business going. Like icing the wedding cake, ingredients and equipment (capital) are inadequate for task accomplishment. You need skills (management of own manpower, finances, customer-relationship) to achieve success. If you ask me, I'd would if I have the right opportunity to seize, right associates to team up with and right amount of consideration to gamble. Haha.

I do agree with money is the medium of trade and exchange. Or figures so to speak. The only and quantifiable medium. Hence, the commonly adopted measure of wealth around the world. This is where I believe, "priceless" derives a meaning.

Increasing focus have been dedicated to other prospects of wealth. This is where continuously upgrading, learning and experience comes in. It's beyond life-long learning and attaining academic knowledge. I feel, the challenge comes from adapting to your environment, capitalise yourself.. most importantly, achieving the equilibrium of life without damaging your wealth unnecessarily. You can't agree more, its tough.

The clear definition of wealth is not what I hold on personal grounds, the majority's stereotyping or edict-ed by dictionaries. Of all the things religious people said, one of the few I hold dear "It's in your heart". If you feel strongly about it, more than never, it is right.

De one with Couldn't Help Pondering

Finger to lips

Being so drained from work and stoning in front of the computer. It never fail to make me wonder what's the cause of all these strange behavior. Am I getting old and physically tired? Or have I overworked myself that the body and mind are both at loss, having slowed down momentarily after more than 19 hours of work?

Jeez... couldn't help pondering whether I need a break.

De one with Art-X-perience

Splendid

Finally, these few week ends have been a relief. Not completely though, but I managed all that I could get. The frequency of my morning jogs decreased due to the common late nights the day before. Ya, it's miserable. Work-rush after tormenting weeks of projects. So, I've been taking things for a change.

Where possible there's a weekday when I'll complete my work and leave office at 5:30pm sharp. Head home in a bus and go for an evening run (I used to hate this idea coz running after a day's work is not constructive: It accelerates my rate of physical "wear and tear"). But I did it. What more?

Saturdays are days when I make it an effort to catch up on my deprived sleep hours. No more dependence on what? Eye serums? In fact, it only makes your eye bags darker overtime. The ideology is the same with say, gym. One can run on treadmills, eat protein and do lots of weights. But the results are unsustainable should there be an interrupt or discontinuance. Sometimes, natural methods are more effective. Not "most". I'm saying "more".

I revived my love for arts. Last sunday after work at a Church, I rushed to watch Chicago with Qing. Not sure if you read my FB but it was splendid. 

1) The venue was an experience itself. First time in Esplanade. Woohoo!

2) The cast were artistes. 5/5 for Acoustics. 5/5 for right notes sung. 6/5 for their dance moves.

3) There was this part when there was silver confetti showered down unto the stage when "Razzle Dazzle". the lights made it glittered like shattered rainbows.. aww.. that's a heart-melting sight.

4) I'm so so sO SO SO SO glad I went with the best accompany, Qing! She's kept saying the feeling was different and delighted she could see the actors and actresses' facial expressions since we were seated near the stage. Glad the tickets were worth it la!

With goods came a few imperfections: 

i) Certain characters fell alittle bit off my expectation since I watched the musical once while I was in secondary 1. Let's see.. for example, Billy Flinch's role wasn't played very composedly. My favourite song "Both reach for the gun" you don't really get the anxiousness and let-loose feeling.

ii) Mr Amos was played by a huge-frame guy. "Cellopane" don't really make his actions. Haha.

iii) The sizzling feeling was lacking.

But nonetheless, it was good. Mary Sunshine (played by a male) was good. Gosh, he hit the "soprano" notes of "There's a little goodness in all of us" nice and beyond. Awesome!

Passed Chicago, I went for my second arty-funky experience with Clara! She never fails to dress up to the occasion. Like Rainne Yang who can be a superstar who does candid acts, likewise the same with her la. Spare her opening "grumpiness" (shh! due to her PMS), it was real pleasant going out with her. And yup, been contributing alot of $$ to sistic this month. Wasn't rush this time. Weren't late. Thank goodness. The theater was nice. First time at the Drama Centre. I must say, it was a refreshing encounter. It requires you to pass this bridge, feels as though we are boarding a plane. Haha.

And a flight experience it was. The "Animal Farm" was damn spectacular! The horses! The way the actor and Yeo Yenn Yenn neighed, trotted. Unbelievably resemblance to real horses. If scientists need a prototype of a horse-evolved-to-man, this is it. The dog, shaking as it sticks out his tongue.. well of course, there might be some others who probably went because of the semi-naked cast. Mohan, your favourite actor Lim Yu Beng was in it too! He seemed to be have been working out huh.

Clara said it's amazing. WildRice actually narrated the entire story in an hour plus. The old major's speech was memorised word for word. Verified this after I researched and read the first chapter online. What's more? I enjoyed the audience-engagements. Treating us as sheeps, asking us to read the amended commandment "Four legs good. Two legs bad" after them. Passing a basket of apples at the front row.

The gees of the play wasn't the comedian acts, arts appreciation. What's not to be forgotten was the lessons drawn from the story. Similar to what a taxi-driver shared with me. Regardless, people, animals alike in this case, are inevitably entangled with "power", "pleasure" and "money". Notwithstanding the fact that the nature of the characters were written to resemble generic personalities of humans, I guess the need for leadership (which derives power) is imperative for any community. The pigs "traded" (be it cash or non-physical cash exchanged) in order to satisfy our needs and wants. haha, ok, sounds very economics.

The need to seek directions to live further lead to the thought: All man or living things seek something to worship. Gabriel had shared this over our conversation. I couldn't agree more. Be it an embodiment of security from religion, belief, fun, we are all in need of something to serve us guidance.

It seems the partners who went to the musical and play with me were pretty meticulous. Qing noticed and pointed out to me, the drummer held the drum sticks the traditional way, like mine while I was in band. Clara on the other hand, could remember "Squealer" when I thought I recalled the name to be "Squeker" which probably come form the high-pitched squeaks it makes all the time. Paiseh..

Said and enough said. I can safely say, weekends are clearing. As far as I expected it to be. Life ain't that much of a one-way street ley.. look left, there's no deadlines from school projects or worries over an exam when I turn towards a corner. Look right, there's no sight of a dead-end path, or barriers from work assignments. Yeah, it's May! And yes, people.. queue up to ask me out!

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De one with Dreams

Decide what I wana be

"Professions" from thespringerlebaker.com

 

Like happiness at some moment in time, I believe we never missed considering what we wana or inspire or ambition to be. At a tender age, I picked up a color pencil and my hand told me I wanna draw. Sent for art lessons, got praised in school for having a talent in drawing. Went for competitions, didn't win much but guess my works possessed some charm to be captivated as display on noticeboards. Everybody who knew this "gift" in me pursued me to become an artist. Ironically, it had never occur to me I wanted to be one.

I used to hate professionals. I recall passing this kids-go-on-stage event. Vividly while the contents remain intact. There was this boy, taller and bigger in size than me, standing next to the MC. The MC asked "Tell us, what do you hope to be when you grow up". "A lawyer!", replied the boy with a snobbish tone. Back then, I thought "what's so great about being a lawyer?". Despise would be the appropriate description of how I felt back then. Was being rather defensive. My most-respected ambition was to grow up to become a teacher. It appears teachers then, were the only external figures we have contact with with authority and hands full of teaching materials, transparencies, marker pen, multi-colored chalks and knowledge.

It wasn't until later did the evils of logic which eroded this inspiration. We realised the importance of wealth, justice and finally, self-passion, that we started moulding our dream jobs towards fulfilling these attributes. Through my 24 years, considerations were given to fireman (after watching ladder 49), lawyer (after watching Lucy Liu on Ally Mcbeal), police investigator (having watched Hongkong dramas), drummer on tour (post-spectaculated Yamato Wadaiko), pornstar boy (not because of obscenity. It's a plain crazy ideal). Silly as it sounds but looking back, it's the innocence which lives in all of us. A little dimension stolen from the daunting and stagnant nature of pragmatism.

I ever considered being a knight or "fu ma" (young master). With age and maturity only did I learnt these were positions not earned but entitled. Since we are at this, I was washing my spoon the other evening. The shiny surface of the useful eating tool strike a match in my mind. In modern time, we are born with a silver spoon in our mouths. Not pure silver since pure metals are too malleable and easily broken. We have aluminum and pewter which are shiny too. The million dollar question is, are we that poor? Does the idiom "born with a silver spoon" mean anything?

And look! Where am I at? Haha.. drowning in the joys and tears of audit. Woot!

De one with Lost in the Desert

Reflective and questioning

Just as I was about to give up, someone pushes me up again. Can't help feeling "helpless" like Bella Swan from Twilight saga. No idea what I'm driving at? Here's a clue! My colleague described my situation under "contemplation". Don't think I was clear enough. Hack la.. I was going to quit.

Indecisive whether God works his wonder or pure coincidence in due course, Reb said she had an intuition an hour or so before she knew I'd been approaching her to break the news. Which I did eventually. And her reply was "we talk again". We revisited the matter again and she asked me to head back to think again. Hence, this blog entry.

Confess and admit plainly, the workload was part of the reason. With relationship out of the way, I had failed to juggle work and studies as much as I thought I could. This was unforgivably bad. Yes, over-expectations drown myself into greater pressure and disappointment. My targets were set above average given it was my last semester in school and I'm bestowed ever more responsibilities. Obviously, I find myself bending over backwards to meet these goals. "Tire-ness" claims the other half. Sounds clinche but nevertheless true. I feel tied down.. lost of control of my schedules and priorities. It sucks cause I feel messed up and drained both mentally and physically.

For some, they would impose their comments: "We get tired from everything else, we just gotta suck up to it and better learn how to manage it. Either through effective time management. Or adopt optimistic attitude." Precisely so, we ought to take a break. To re-boot ourselves, see things with a clearer mind and strategise an enhanced effective course of action. Not forgetting, for rejuvenation to jump the next hurdle that's gonna come. Else, facing the problem with a stubborn and persistent head-on, it's a question of now or later that we're just gonna coop up like a packet of popcorn under prolong heating in an microwave oven, which explodes eventually.

This time, I fell hard and lagged in picking myself up again. Good or bad? Let's just leave the evaluation aside. It doesn't matter anymore. What's the point of deciphering the pros and cons? More importantly, realise it is okay to leave situation as it is. No point crying or landing ourselves into a panicky state over spilled milked. Just let it dry under the sun and have nature takes its course. Would you disagree?

De one with Crossroads

Exhaustingly confused

*Takes a deep breathe*

Guys, mdms, I can't help but to admit.. I'm facing quarter-life crisis. If I were to pen down my feelings figuratively, I'm like a tattered flag that's blowing with whichever winds approached.

As true as perceived, all these chaotic emotions that I'm facing sucks. And it sux big time. Physically, I feel drained. It's continuous war-world in my head. Dragged myself to occasions and activities. There's so much I wished I could do but it just all seemed bleak.

Fair enough, I bet everyone is experiencing likewise. Then some crappy wise one would offer "philosophical words of wisdom": Everyone goes through the same thing or only the tough last.. Tell me about it. 

A moment of desperation to understand my dreadful situation, a kind friend loaned me this book: Rules of Life. Therein lies a rule which says: Accept things for what they are. First impression formed will skew towards "live and let live". But deeper thoughts reveal it also means "It's ok to be not ok" (Teo, J, 2010).

Yes, I'm not ok. There's nothing I can do about it at the moment. Just driving aimlessly down this long stretched life road. I can see the crossroads ahead. Perhaps that might help me get through this. No faith, just sheer surrender and embracing truth as it is.

Wish me luck!

De one with 4th Centennial

It's the 400th

Hey guys and girls! Time passes with godspeed before we know it, it's the 400th entry!

First and foremost, much as I wanted to keep my blog alive or seed this specially to those whom deserve my love, the recent tight schedules (back-to-back projects, heavy-assessment-weightage presentations, fast-paced work) have taken its toll upon me. Not only that, it's devoured my time with you, beloved friends and associates, family and my health.

Stumbled and fell a couple of times. Managed to pick myself up with much efforts but I supposed everything's so overwhelming I didn't handle myself very well. Hence, the lack of opportunities to update my blog. Most of the time, I had to tap on facebook to keep timely updates.

Regardless the above, I express my sincere and enormous gratitude to my supportive die-hard fans, best friends, friends, acquaintances for your encouraging texts, concerned msn's messages, responsive facebook comments, heart-warming calls, late night meetings and relentless requests to have dinner.

Trying hard and still trying to sort my life out. Pick up and lost some. But that's alright. On, up and forward! Stay tuned!!

De one with OHP of transparency

Life philosophies

Puzzled over what "OHP" means? I doubt they still use these in school. Or perhaps in some they still. OHP is the abbreviation for Overhead Projectors. During secondary school days, apart from upgrading from black to white boards, teachers used transparencies (A4 plastic sheets) placed onto a lighted screen and transpose whatever that's written on the source onto a projection drop, using the techniques of periscopes.

Say what you mean and mean what you say.  (Someone changed it to "Say what you wanna say, Mean what you meant to say" Lol! Aiyah, pretty sama sama ("same" in Malay) la). One of the bedrock of my life philosophies. It's heart-gripping and troubling to conceal anything form anyone. It takes years to master the art of deception. Why waste our youths on learning something that would only come haunting us with "ballot lots" of regrets in later years.

I think such philosophies enable the development of self-confidence. It ain't just plain clinche conscience on the discussion table here since it's not entirely based on integrity, rights and wrongs. It involves a balanced share of pragmatism and exposing our inner selves.

Revolutionising social values have degraded our thoughts and thus, our behavior inaugural  to conform to socially deemed benchmarks. Some conspire. Others refused. It's a superficially subjective and double-edged sword.

As extreme as I could be, I try to be easy-going without compromising my principles. This is when the rational reasonable man theory comes in. No. Not "the". Lemme rephrase it to "my" personal opinion of the rational reasonable man (hereafter known as "RRM"). Technical terms? The best fit definitions of the RRM would be someone who is able to withstand 64% emotional and 36% logic.

Why the above proportion? Take double laws for example. In court, equitable laws precedes common laws. My analogy based the scales as a representative of human emotions (which inherent moral values, ethics and other stuff which have no definite rights from wrongs), the sword as an instrument symbolising human logic (which governs our knowledge, speech, decisions).

It is okay to have firm in decision and instinct the triumphany of thoughts over feelings. Tip alittle towards the latter yields flexibility. Vice versa, relied backwards on the former conjures rigidity. And the amazing reign of separation between both is transparency.

Widen your wavelength for self transparency.. I think this was something I studied during organisational behavior.. arh! Johari Windows!

With reference to the color abstract (in courtesy of aborsarwat.blogspot) above, transparency grows when we widen the yellow "open" window. Known to others and known to self reduces cognitive discomfort to others (in trying to know and get along better) and self (concern with what others think or feel about us). Yes, the course of "open" expansion is transparency.

To aid faster expansion, we call upon the "brothers and sisters": understanding, communication, honestly... Most of the time, it works. If it doesn't, like Patty Smyth and Don Henley had propagated, sometimes love just ain't enough.

Can't believe I'm saying this but there's an impressionable chinese phrase "xin1 ai4 rong2 yi4, xiang1 chu3 nan2". But I think bonding requires mutual transparencies. Let's not be an a** defending privacy. Honestly, privacy is an entitlement which has been pretty infringed or intruded with advanced development of technology. Some retains. Others doesn't. The best living examples are celebrities.

For the general population of us who does possess minimal privacy, why not take it as a gift which can be shared with the ones we love and care for. It's free-of-charge if that's the way to put across the thifty, or meant it as a comfort to those who are less fortunate.

Nobody loves opaque all the time, we rather prefer it clear.. if we ain't comfortable, there's always a chance to purchase curtains for refurbishment. Haha.. can't believe I'm behaving creating ideas like Dan Brown. Purely fiction!

De one with NUS

Tuesday with the Open book, Three Rings and Raise-paw Lion

It seemed like yesterday since I've clashed lectures at local universities. Haha. The last time was at NTU, with my ex or Clara, I hardly remember. But it's fun nevertheless. Doubled the fun with thrills of infiltrating into the crowds. Imagine doing that say 3 years later. I wonder if my looks are passable for me to do so.

Appointed with Eric and Gabriel (army campmates) to have lunch. Turns out I was delayed at the lawyer's office administrating the completion of Jimson's case. Although my helpful Crayon was informative in the directional texts, when I was on ground, I kinda lost my way and called Gabriel for help.

It was nice to see my fellow specs again. The first greeting I got from Gabriel was "It's good you've got my as a live-GPS".. which I felt was warm. If that's not warm enough, Eric "chop" this seats at the Art's faculty canteen which was under the sun la.. eventually, both my "hosts" decided to fetch me to the upper level where it was air-conditioned with "Lerk Thai" and "Burger King". According to them, these are more expensive. We had Thai cuisine though which was average. Only alittle over-priced. Must be the charges for the cool environment.

We chatted merrily about army times, updates of each other, what are their future career paths. Apparently, I realised none of us changed much. Perhaps our hair grew longer. But personality wise, we remained the same. So were our memories. It didn't take long before Crayon arrived that I decided to toned down the conversation. Kinda felt bad he came and wasn't into the conversation. And I pre-empt he might feel intimidated because my company were seniors.. seniors who succeeded in their studies. We parted hastily as we were running late. Aww... so wonderful seeing them.

BUT! This is when the next segment of the day begins. The lecture hall. The appearance of the LT bears resemblance of those in NTU. You have an elevated corridor and declined platform which leads to the doorways to LT. They have this "Lecture in progress" signal on the top of right entrances. Reminds me of those operation rooms exteriors.. spare the difference in color.

It pretty filled. The lecture. Oh, the lecture or should I comment on the lecturers. There were accounting and law. Both were very interesting people, employing different lecturing techniques to delivery their teaching objectives. The accounting had song effects and bitchy conversations. Law lecturer was hilariously long-winded like a primary school teacher and shown us videos with her in it. Not bad, there were cat-calls when she made her appearance. Ha.

Here's the juicy part. Crayon told of even amazing facts concerning these lectures. The accounting guy, Winston is in his 40s and man.. you should have looked at his personal grooming. The hair's so slick.. he's like a grown-up toy-lookalike Astroboy la.. The law lecturer, Catherine holds double qualifications in medicine and law. Omg. *gurp* 

After 4 hours of mental-exhausting lectures, we made our long journey to Yusof Ishak House for dinner, study and snack. The wanton noodles... not so bad la.. wonder what would be Huimin's comments, considering she always eats these in school.

Well, I was led on an expedition to one of the top.. erm.. *clears throat* scandalous place in the campus. Oh well.. nothing much la. It's pretty adventurous but the dark alleys gave me the creeps. It suppressed my interest to explore. Haha.

Ya, a wonderful break from my routined and hectic work-life. As much as I had enjoyed and let down my hair, I kinda regretted not heeding my Mummy's advice on securing a place in the local unis. Kinda miss the taste of hall-days. But pragmatism casts away these clouding yearnings of the past. Moving forward... treasure the remaining days of my student status. Haha.

De one with Proliferated Premonition

Halting emotions

The flame-orange maple leaf detached itself from its mother plant, landing on the surface of a steam. The smooth current guided it along the journey, until it hit a limestone.

The two became attached. Limestone served as a barrier, preventing the leaf from sipping into the vast river. However weathering spoils everything. The limestone was crippling. All that held the leaf to it was a slit to hold the leaf loosely.

Leaf said, I'll shelter you from further corrosion. But the limestone refused "This is nature. Years of weathering will give me beautiful shapes. For a true reason why I was built this way. "Moreover, through cracks will you be able to secure your roots and grow."

The maple leaf was fearful of the forthcoming storm, that it would depart and that the limestone might just erode away or disintegrate. It considered detaching itself so other mineral sediments could aid its nature companion.

Actually, all it required was for the both to stick together and let time tell. The leaf worried the dismissal of limestone. Limestone was worried about the life-line of the young leaf and aspire to take its natural course.

The proliferated premonition of nature's course had unveiled its core-truth. It hurts, seriously. Quantifiableless. 

De one with Tolerating Nexus Nonsense

Urrgghh

Totally hate it when things are unstable.. it's nerve-raving worry. Kinda upset when I brought my Nexus One, got the MMS fault resolved. For no reason, not only did the MMSdidn't work. GPRS too. Seriously, I don't know how far my tolerance is gonna last.

De one with Dropping Everything Else

Unloading

If I hadn't inherit patience from Daddy, I honestly doubt if I'd have remained my cool. Faced with an excruciatingly experience at work today. Its the third time in my two years' association with the company. So upset, I nearly brimmed with tears. But I knew it was unmanly to let any emotions. You just have to clench your teeth and handle the prevailing situation. I had been doing this and I employed the same behavior again today. It feels sucky to see the ugly side of people. It makes me sick seriously.

Augh, it's furtile dwelling over what I kana ("encountered" in Malay). Rebecca said, tong wan mi shwang zhong ren. She explained it means two/multiple characters developed despite all feeding on the same staple food/rice in this context. Just unfortunately today's not my day.

Knowing so, I ended work on time and "fled" to Paragon to remedy the MMS problem. Ernest, the customer service officer told me they needed time to configure the settings which probably takes 30minutes. I made my way to Coffee Club to dine alone. As much as I was reminded of my striving-low-profile and independent secondary and JC days, I realised I was a shell just eating for the sake of eating. The dishes on my table weren't what I really wanted. So I practically stoned after a few bites of pennes.

Ernest called, the mms was enable. Subconsciously, I suspected something was wrong. Have been having migraine these few days. That was when I got reminded of NUH and decided to go there to snack and sat... perhaps this was how I feel better - pursuing your memories, reflect the events.. As I locate myself at NUH, I recalled the days when I was a trainee specialist and was appointed to visit this medic at this medical building somewhere between NUH and NUS compounds. It was a moment of freedom. And I feel... lighthearted. Dissipating all the self-doubts, self-disappointment.. with breezy nostalgic therapy.

I had to.. to prevent my loss of confidence and find composure. Really hate being moved and jeopardising control/grip over myself. It's a sigh of vulnerability. It's a taboo for perfectionist.

Survived a crisis on how to get home from NUH :: Topo my way through to Commonwealth MRT. It was until I reached Outram Park than I decided to meet Clara for a chat. Well, I was pretty impressed I traveled on the public transport for longer than expected.

Whatever doesn't kill you means you stronger. True indeed.

De one with Debut of the Temptatious

First time ever...

Omg omg omg! Recently I realised I've more prone to succumb to cravings for ICE CREAM!! Omg omg omg!

The vanilla, milky texture.. sizzling cool vapour swirling up seductively into the air. Just take a look at it, all laid in the fridge.. man, hell had no lush for an ice-cream temptations. Ah-woooo~

Eh?! where's Eva Longoria? Omg omg omg! Ladies and gentlemen, for the first time, hot has succumbed to coldness. Eh wait, didn't they show how Bobby "the Iceman" defeated Pyro in X-men 3? *Someone get this spoiler out please... * Muahahah.. ok, where was I? Yup, the hot Eva had been absorbed by the coldness. To lower the temperature further, *whispering* perhaps she had too much re-shoots and over-consumed too much first bites of Magnum. Haha.

Goooddddarrrnnit. It all starts...

*harp melody*

A very long time ago, in a small town, there was a little boy named Jason. He went to the "300+" marketplace (named derived because the marketplace was located in the vicinity of HBD flats with block numbers with 300+) with ah-ma on weekends morning. Ah-ma will do her grocery shopping, buy bah kuht teh or pig trotter's soup from this famous hawker store. While little Jason enjoy staring in front of this corner mini-aquarium store, fascinated with the tanks of guppies; play continuously in this small-scale public stage in front of the Town Council or...terrific times with a Mr Softee from 7-Eleven! In fact, that's a doting reward from my ah-ma. Hehe.

*glamorous wink*

Kindergarten was filled with days of ice-popsticks, those which comes in the form of two-plastic sausages shaped, requiring a twist to the middle to break the wrapping before you could taste the syrup soaked ice. and ice-cream with bread (from those pushcarts ice-cream uncle). Haha. After that, we "upgraded" to Push-cup ice-cream, Popsicle ice cream.. AND! there was the Paddle-Pop Rainbow ice-cream.. oooh.. that's a can't be miss! And there's one with the lime coating with vanilla  core.  Super nostalgic.

*flickering eyes*

Ageing don't seem a bad thing because during occasions like this will I get to eat Firehouse ice-cream from Swensons. It's a 3 flavoured ice-cream, the standard strawberry, vanilla and chocolate with a banana stock in the middle which lights a candle to give the ice-cream bowl a birthday cake-makeover. Back then, I thought this was the ultimate ice-cream in the world until my encounter with Earthquake ice-cream. More dry-iced smoke, and oooo... more flavors!

*delirious grin*

Recall there was this expensive ice-cream which wavy layers and chocolate favour. Hmm.. kinda forgot the name liao! Something "Vienna..." Super sinful.. but perhaps not as condemning sinful as the Mud pie! (every girl's desire) tsk tsk tsk. Yes.. the optimistic side of ageing is greater exposure to better indulgences.

*sinister laugh*

But everyone has their all-time favorite. Mine happens to be... *grand orchestra fanfare* Sundaes from Macdonalds. Like Pocky, it comes in chocolate and strawberry flavors! Haha. No preference actually. Tastebud sovereignty!

*V-sign*

Believe it or not, even till today, I have this mis-perception about Ben's and Jerry's being a lover's ice-cream brand. When I announced my point of view to my colleagues, the first reaction witnessed would be their "shock / jaws drop facial expression", followed by "Is it?" before they proceed with a chain of laughter. Oh boy..

*hands hits forehead*

If you ask which are my favourite ice-cream flavors? Press 1 for English. Press 2 for Nothing. Kidding.

Consolation places goes to rum and raisins. Fruitty flavors. Coffee perhaps.

Second runner up would have to go to "Orange Sherbet".

First runner up is none other than "Vanilla with macademia*.

And our most anticipated champion goes to.... *roll roll roll your boat*.. Thin Mint!

There you have it.. is that your stomach growling, heart's itching and lips biting? Hahaha.. Chill and relax, have a chillout, have an ice-cream! Ok, gotta cease, wouldn't want Media board to come apprehending me.Ohh! (Pictures in courtesy of Google.com search engine)

De one with Dubious

Sunday for validating honor

If only life was as clear as the Maldives oceans, if only it was as perfect as a Tiffany ring, if only it was as determinate as trees, if.. and IF only.

Suppose the biggest regret is not knowing how to embrace uncertainty. Not even people or objects within your grasp, be it a spouse or inseparable childhood friend. It's even more heartbreaking to prempt to all things comes an end. For example, the product life cycle of a market product (right, in courtesy of amadeo.blog.com). It rises to a peak and fades. Likewise the fate of all things. Not being pessimistic, just realistic here.

During vulnerable times, I'd fail not to self-reflect. This being one of the fastest way to understand the situation. Nevertheless, ain't attempting to solve any problems. Alot of times, people perceive instantaneously and leap straight into conclusion, flagging it off as self-denial, pessimism. Reality is, there weren't any problem to being with. It's plain situational analysis and comprehension. Let's just stop being so impatient and ignorant. Take the backside and listen.. sense.. approach life with an open mind.

I would deny as simple and confident as my appearance portray, being this tissues and muscles inhere doubts as to what I'm putting up with. Wouldn't prize myself for being persistent and goal-accomplishing at times but there are times I crumple when faced with circumstances ambiguous and seems out-of-my-control. Take a very good example, bondings. It's innate gift to be considerate towards others' feelings which translate such sensitivity in my actions and behavior. Regardless, it might work with most but not all who I associate with.

Stripe me of my flowery words, thoughtful poems and long texts of concern, concentrate and find me doubting whether I'm willing to commit. The heart is willing but the situation just doesn't permit. It's like holding a risky investment portfolio. Or a fragile ribbon. Hold it tight and it will snap. Leave it loose and it might flutter away with the winds.

Could it be really me? When I effort and it doesn't yield results, I retreat alittle. No, it doesn't mean I am giving up. Just have to deal with the uncertainty arising from non-responses. It's true, certain things are better left unresolved. "Like a sack of entangled rubber bands." (Christopher N., 2009) Relentless trials to dislocate them just gets it worse.

The above being said doesn't necessarily voice my decision to sweep dirt under carpets. Perseverance comes into picture in situation like this, to serve as a thoughtful reminder to hang out till it's over (in better or worst). If improvements apparent, good, its a hint for me to proceed closer. Otherwise, I think it's better to stay put. Think. And evaluate if its worth the wait.

Parallel lines won't meet (Nathaniel Ho, 2009). Travel forth and notice both are heading in the same direction, leading to somewhere in hopes it will converge. Look at the tracks on  the left (in courtesy of Draw One-point Perspective, S.Helen), it seems they do meet. But trust me, it'll not be meet who will bend. True enough, self-principles have to be guarded. And you haven't even noticed.

Most critically, live and let live. Feels much better. Clarity with writing. Cup emptied. Now I have spaces for more.

De one with Quiet

Time will tell..everything

It's true. Secrets have no answers to them. The quiet one holds the most secret. I supposed that's why they feel lost most of the time.

(Image in courtesy of www.fanpop.com)

Of all people around, I understand completely how it feels to self-contain unspoken troubles. Come here, let's give each other all the embraces we need.

De one with Cactus and EGM

Declining days

Lemme ask you a question: Have you ever watched this movie "Just my luck"? It stars pretty Lindsay Lohan and above-average Chris Pine. Or even better, you get to live it? Yes, I've been suspicious on whether I'm being "sucked" into being in a living script. My luck's kinda in jeopardy. Wondered if it was the cactus for Xmas which are strewn all over office except my table. For a moment, I thought "indoor cactus pricks your life" (Crayon, 2010) was nothing but a mid-wives' tale. Turns out..hmm.. nears convincing.

Since Monday, every morning's buzzing with eventful of... Urgh.. unpleasant "surprises"! Mails missing during postage and had to be reprocessed, calling client to solve other people's problem, being faulted for stock take conducted last year, solving discrepancies without information; feels inevitable and terribly-alone against the odds. Should I continue further, it'd have formed a chapter of my memoir.

Come closer.. let me share something with you alright.. All thanks to my cardio-blood cells.. they have managed to revived and revamped a bottle right in the inner compartment of the left ventricle. Mitral valve has been contained successfully. Projection plans has it for extra "problems" storage for 30% of the left atrium. Yes, the Jasons held an extraordinary general meeting today.

***

The following were resolved:

The members have unanimously agreed and hereby approve for halo-Jason to be reappointed as secretary for the "don't-know-how many(th)" neuron-wave of meeting. The Board veto against emo-Jason who was vying for similar post. Poll of votes was executed with 1 breath-second. Results were in favor of Board's proposal.

The members voiced their appreciation to healthy-Jason for his recommendable efforts to deter fats and face-buanging ("dire-condition" in sound-effect Singlish). Except an imaginary thumbs-down from lazy-jason, the remaining members unanimously agreed and hereby approve to reward the said Jason a few hours of time for continual physical training and dieting.

Operation "telling others your problems" have been put to haul. The members have been warned and whom agree for utilisation of "bottling-up". Effective day as at today. Concerns were raised on future blood-pressure expenditure and scarcity of energy. The members proposed and vote in favour of forming a "bright-a-Jason-day" cabinet headed by easy-going Jason; co-opt by optimistic-Jason.

As there were no further business, the EGM was concluded.

Finally, a vote of thanks to the CEO Jason for chairing the meeting.

***

Yup, yesterday was amusing, conspiracy "maybe I should get a big cactus or garden of cactus to tareh ("withstand" in Malay) all the power of neighboring effectors". Today cooking up with the holding of EGM. Man.. everything's woohaaing do I need a shrink?? Obviously not! I'm good. Just drained from work and lectures, quando quando quando ("maybe" in Italian). 3 down, 3 more to go for this week. Xiong!! ("fiercely challenging/demanding" in Hokkien). Just my luck!

*nearly fell off the chair*

De one with Feared Beginning

Test of time

Today school resumes full throttle. It's back to the enduring days of work, rushing to campus and three hours lecture. By the time home-arrival is accomplished, the clock reads plus/minus half past 11pm. *lets out a big sigh*

Work wasn't in fact good. Someone was right.. I didn't have a prancing day today. Early morning a client called to report the lost of mail of important reports. I explained to him the course of action which will follow under all possibilities. He's still not satisfied, called my boss. Sigh, I felt bad not due to the fact that my boss might be angry with me or feeling mad I've been backstabbed/complained, just feel disappointment primarily because I seemed to have caused disappointment to others. It's like not having good results when a child shows his/her report card to the parents for signature. There were other matters to attend to. All swammed toward me like a blast.

Afternoon had a "reprimanding" session with Rebecca when I was just following instructions. No.. instructions which changed. Oh well, but I am surprised recovery came earlier than expected. I didn't texted anybody to complain. Didn't have the time either. My current assignment is teething everywhere. *sigh*

Felt alittle guilty I put a tiny brave front in my replies to Crayon's texted. Evening lecture wasn't bored since it was strategic decision making. The poor lecturer was putting so much effort in engaging the class yet in vain. Poor guy. Little did I know the role I undertook, being marketing, is gonna be tough challenging because I just realised my teammates had to wait for my forecast, product cost requirement yadayada before they could proceed with their responsibilities. Omg. Pressurising. Interesting at the same time. But still.. pressurising ya..(?)

Okay, time to sleep. Tomorrow's a brand new day. Hope the week should improve   :)

De one with School Starts Tmr!

The day before tomorrow

Everybody looked forward to weekends. I ain't exception. Like many, I anticipate a break after a hectic week of work and rainy days. Completed a breath-taking assignment during the week. For that, I think I deserved a good weekend and pretty well, it turned out fair this week.

The prelude to a weekend begun with an evening jog on Friday. The majority in office left on time. Was waiting for my dinner buddy. Considering that person wouldn't arrive till 8+pm, I proceeded with my initial training for the forthcoming countdown. I have not been eating dinner well. But cared nontheless. Recently I discovered Mr Bean's soya milk with chendol's tasty and filling to the stomach. This discovery was realised on the night before after rushing down to Fairprice Xtra under the impression that it was near closing. Arrived at around 9+pm after I came back from a jog also, and surprisingly, it's still operating. Wuao.

Dinner buddy came (so much so for turning up with a filled-stomach). So dinner wasn't much except filled with a cup of Soya milk with chendol, Sundae hot fudge and a few bites of Ribena blackcurrent pastilles. And you know what?! 7-Eleven doesn't sell Mr Softee ice-cream anymore.. Sigh.. the old nostalgic childhood of going to the Blk 300+ estates when my ah-ma never fails to buy me Mr Softee. Those were the days and long bidden goodbyes now the product line is cut.

Was feeling lazy on Saturday.. considering I slept at 5am. (Man, speaking of this, just realise I ought to adjust my sleeping time earlier. Where's that lubricating and hypnosis brainwave hiding at the corner of my brain when I need it badly?). Didn't head out of house until 4+pm. Met Crayon's friends for a little less-fetched coffee chat. Wasn't a little bit bored, rather I was faced with some language communication barrier - I thought everyone at the black starbucks table was more comfortable with conversation in mandarin. Knowing my weakness and limitations in mandarin, I decided to take a back-seat to observe than make a fool out of myself in speech. Besides, I kinda misjudged the beverage needed. Should have ordered a grande instead of a tall ice shaken lemon passion tea. I needed the drink badly to sustain conversation. Else my voice will end up straining itself before it starts to crack into hoarse. Haha. At the same time, I didn't want my presence to cause much awkwardness than expected. So yup, I tried my best to be engaged as much whenever the opportunity presents itself.

We departed from the nice pair and did shopping as intended. Embarked on my quest for the forthcoming new year, thank Crayon's accompany I managed to find this "buy-me" retro-Tee at FcUK and replacement for Kenzo cologne. Oh, by the way, my feets couldn't help resist but stepped into Swarovski outlet for its long-distant organ, my eyes, to glimpse if there were any new Kris bears on sale. Turns out more than meets the eye, prices per quantity have rose by almost 16% (Price comment as casual remark without prejudice) Thank goodness I bought my "babies" way before "effects from inflation" (as Crayon had said).

Had a sinful but satisfying dinner at Shokudo. I guess this restaurant retained my different meal experience although the same dishes sat on the table. Recalled there were birthday parties with colleagues where I pushed my colleagues' heads (a guy and a gal) together while taking photos; laughter-to-tears sessions over playing games (to finish the leftover dishes) with Reb, YW and Alice after work once; welcome-Jielong-back to Singapore dinner with himself, Loo and me; making Clara mad and crying while celebrating her birthday over lunch because Loo and I went overboard with our joke; after work meet-up and investment chats with Zhen Ze and GH. This evening, it was just Crayon and I, ordering less dishes, desserts and ironing issues for sustainability consensus. No idea when it would be sabotaged again, but well, a truly fresh experience to the collection for Shokudo I guess!

What's good didn't end until today. My friend Francis drove me to Vivo. That was where my NY quest was revisited. Bought 2 Tees from F.Perry, 1 from Zara and a lovely blue shirt from my most frequent R.I. Francis shown me this touch-screen PC screen which was fascinating. Ooh, he never fails to excite me with new gadgets informatives. What's more eye-popping is the price which is still within budget! Which I perceived to be high. Gurrrh, pardon me! I ain't any IT guru. Wuao! Looks like it's getting competitively price-affordable as technology progress rapidly and new products coming out with intriguing sophisticated yet desirable interfaces.

We ate sumptuously and bloated meal at Shin Kushiya before heading to the cinemas for a dull but interesting "logic-packed" Sherlock Holmes movie. Scores pretty well with all those detective and evaluation plot, not so much with the pace.. so much so Francis fell asleep twice amid the film. Omg. Furthermore, was in GV max theater, the aircondition was strong, freezy fuzzy therein.

Good times sure end in a blink of the eye. Except SMU (my empathy with Loowan), uni reopens tomorrow.  As much as it dreads, please Ganbante!     

De one with Backpeddling

Losing

The events are unfolding like a film I've audience/played in a few times. First, excuses. Second, no meetings. Ending, departure and one party gets left behind. Plotting this on a graph, it's gonna reveal a downward exponential curve. No, it doesn't hit zero. There's only so much a guy's heart can take.

If I'm getting the wrong impression, prove me wrong!